Impressions form in a matter of seconds, it takes even less time to ruin a really good impression. It is worth a moment of everyone's time to stop and think how much work goes into building a relation, making an impression, leaving a mark (a good one)... and it takes so little to wipe out all that hard work. A blow to the right place with the wrong words or actions will ruin everything. Recently I have come to realize that what seems to be ...hardly is.. and what is...seldom seems to be.
Both A and I are alike - taking someone on face value has become a (bad) habit for us. In the end what awaits eagerly is just hurt and broken relations. Relations that we thought were important and mattered... we would and could go out of our way entirely to make it work. Silly kids... that is so juvenile! Well... we are learning.. slowly but surely. To have a good relation with anyone... there is always a lot of work involved. Even when someone is related by blood - we are born with the relation - however keeping it alive is entirely our responsibility.
To build a good future... it is important to look into the past and learn from all the rights...that went wrong...
It is OK to judge - but do we feel equally OK when we are set on the other side of the same table?
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the answer lies in your question itself....its easier said than done...everybody wants to be on this side of table & not on the other side...thinking they have all the right in the world to judge & not to get judged...nobody likes the idea..the best we can do is to realise it & put it action for sure.. which we rarely do!!!
Its all about common sense but then as it is said...'common sense is not so common'!!
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